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A very warm welcome to my thoughts and opinions. These lyrics from Megadeth's Peace Sells resonate with me. What do you mean, "I can't get to work on time"? I got nothing better to do And, what do you mean, "I don't pay my bills"? Why do you think I'm broke? Huh? What do you mean, "I hurt your feelings"? I didn't know you had any feelings. What do you mean, "I ain't kind"? I'm just not your kind.

me.

I have a penchant for sweet delights be it chocolate lava cakes or eye candy in my favorite tv show. I adore being a couch potato and my recent addiction is NCIS and The Big Bang Theory.

9:51 PM

Thursday, July 08, 2004

i was watching this korean movie yest "marriage is a crazy thing" i could realli relate to it. pretty freaky.

personally i don't believe in marriage. its a sham. juz a legal piece of paper that binds two ppl together in today's context. its been degraded as time goes on. look at celebrities they have abused the sanctity of marriage. its no longer "the end" "the one" or "it". its juz one of the many in the queue.

in singapore its more of i wanna HDB flat etc or i wan to SHUT MY PARENTS UP!! ( which i seriously do...very annoying get off my back aite. or should i saw PARENT. argh. ) my personal life is my business not the entire friggin family's n psychotic strangers.

in the movie this woman was dating a guy who didn't believe in marriage aka commitment so she married a doctor (rich stable guy) n had continued dating the guy who gave her the passion she needed. so wats the point of marriage den? i mean adultery is obviously viewed as sth "everyone does". i'm sorry but it sickens me n disgusts me. i'm not saying i can commit to one person for the rest of life. it must be HELLUVA boring & annoying!

but wat abt those vows u make in church? "in sickness n in health, for richer or poorer till death to us part"? probably thinkin abt it more after my cousin's weddin. its interestin how they dated for SEVEN years. damn dats fuckin helluva long. its probably a clash of reality n the ideology of marriage. but its realli CRAZY.

why do guys date a gal exclusively if they gonna cheat on her? why not juz say ur playing the field? the same way why do guy propose to a gal if all u gonna do is commit adultery? the same goes for women? in today's society is one person sufficient to fulfill our needs? physically & emotionally? should we choose stability over passion? can the both even coexist? but doesn't passion fade with time? n den wat are we left with? emptiness? maybe bigamy isn't such a bad idea. i mean we are quick to condemn coz it seems so wrong perhaps we should be entitled to have more den one husband/wife. one to satisfy us emotionally n another to satisfy us physically?

marriage isn't for everyone. i certainly doubt its for me. probably why i dun believe in "pre-marital" sex which shocked my fren. who asked me abt it...=)

why am i skeptical about marriage? coz i've seen alot of crap which i believe is juz pure ol' SHIT. but den again as much to admit it, at my cousin's weddin i suppose i was swept away but dat one night of 'magic'...but when reality comes crashin down on ya its gonna come crashin REAL hard.

like they say marriage is a SENTENCE. (as in jail sentence) a priest said dat once i almost died laughing. of course he had to say dat its all a good thing in the end otherwise the couple getting married would have been in trouble wouldn't they? *winks*